Why Men Cheat

I think men cheat on their women because they get bored with them. Some men are just natural dogs and will have sex with anything in a skirt, including another man.  However, most men cheat because there's some need that's not being met by the spouse or significant other. Even though it's wrong to cheat, most women can take responsibility for their man cheating.

A man is a very simple animal, fuck em, feed him, and give him eye candy to look at. But what often seems to be the case is that most women, once they get a man, forget those things. They use sex as a weapon and fall into the feminism bullshit where the man should be cooking for himself. Lastly, they more often than not, fall into the habit of walking around in sweats and a tee-shirt.

Women have to be totally naive or oblivious to the fact that when their man walks out of the house, he is bombarded with images of superficial beauty, light flirtations and subtle sexual innuendos from women that do not have husbands. More often than not, they're clothing accentuates their attributes. After the man is bombarded with these visual stimulations for eight to ten hours a day, he comes home to a wife that's been wearing the same tee-shirt and sweatpants for the past twenty years, the house is dirty and there's no dinner on the table.

Of course, this will cause tension because his mind is still thinking about what he saw outside of the house. Then it becomes a point that he doesn't want to be there looking at the same old woman, in the same old clothes, in the same dirty house. So he goes to the strip club to get some kind of stimulation even though he knows it's just a fantasy.

I'm not saying it's right to cheat, but I understand why men do it. If a man goes out to work everyday, some may even work two jobs, he likes to come home to a pleasant and visually exciting partner. This is especially if a lot of time has accumulated in the relationship. If the three things mentioned above are satisfied in a man, it would be very hard for another woman to infiltrate. But, because of this so-called feminism and independent women shit, the modern woman has developed the mentality that she doesn't have to fulfill those three primal instincts of a man.

The modern woman thinks she's married to him, has kids by him and that he's stuck with her. But remember the man is very simplistic. He knows all the things that his wife or woman won't do, that there's a woman out there that will do it. A man doesn't cheat because he wants every woman, he just wants his woman to fulfill his basic needs. When his woman doesn't, the man cheats because there's plenty of women that are more than willing to meet those basic needs with bells on.


Ghetto Bastard: A Memoir (Volume 1) and Ghetto Bastard 2 (Volume 2) by Russell Vann