She Was Actually Willing To Die For Me

I knew I loved Denise enough to die for her, but here she was actually willing to die for me, without even giving it a second thought.

How do you know when you love somebody?  How can you tell if someone loves you? People say "I love you" so quick these days but the word is terribly abused.  People love the way someone looks, what someone has, and how they have sex, but how many people actually love the person?  

I knew a guy who was complaining that his wife wasn't fucking him enough.  He spouted off all of his reasoning for his righteous indignation.  When he was done, I asked him if he loved his wife.  With righteousness in his voice he said "Hell yeah!"  When I asked him what love was, he spouted of the biblical versus of Corinthians 13 - love is patient .......

I asked him "If you love your wife what would you do if she got in a car accident and became paralyzed or had a deteriorating disease and became a shell of herself?  if you couldn't have sex with her because of these situations, would you be complaining then? He was speechless.

When you love somebody, you're willing to die for that person because you know they are willing to die for you. To love someone is to love the essence of their being because, out of seven billion people in
the world, there's no other like them.

When two people love each other, they can't explain why, they just know. A person can describe all of the attributes of the person that they love but that's not why they love them because they can also describe their faults.

When two people love each other it's stronger than a maternal bond between parent and child because it's a choice.  the one thing in the world that wealthy people, narcissistic people, controlling people, and evil people have not been able to do is buy someone's love.  It's priceless.



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