Breaking Up Ain't Easy!
Why is it that normal, rational, intellectual, and highly intelligent people lose their minds when it comes to breaking up? And it's always the one who gets dumped, that acts a fool.
Rationally thinking, in a relationship, two people think as one, and become one to obtain a goal as one. Love, trust, respect, adoration, lust, and friendship are all components that come full circle when you're with your significant other. If any these components are missing by any person, the relationship is doomed to fail.
So, if someone tells you that they don't want to be with you anymore, why would you want to be with them? You may have all of the above mentioned feelings but if the other person doesn't have them, it's not a relationship. You can't force a person to feel these things, it's either there or it's not.
I've been through four break-ups with women. One woman took my son away from me, so I couldn't see him. The other set my car on fire and tried to have me arrested. The third took all of my money and humiliated me. But I remember the first girl, who I loved, that dumped me. I wasn't a good guy. I was missing a few of the above components.
She sat me down, and explained to me in a calm voice, all the things that I had been doing to her in the past two years. Then she said that she wanted to break up with me. She even offered to give me a last piece of pussy and I accepted.
Afterwards, she said it was over, no screaming, yelling or cursing. She just had had enough. She also had the right to do all of those things, but she had class. We remained friends without benefits.
I think back and say to myself "Now that's how break-ups should be, no hostility, just the sad parting of ways."
After the last three bitches I broke up with, I had to get that girl I loved, who dumped me with such class back, to marry her ass because she was a keeper.
It's been over twenty years that we have been married. Now, this same woman, who was so rational and understanding when it came to breaking up, threatens my life every week that she'll kill me if I even think about leaving. Breaking up ain't easy!
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Rationally thinking, in a relationship, two people think as one, and become one to obtain a goal as one. Love, trust, respect, adoration, lust, and friendship are all components that come full circle when you're with your significant other. If any these components are missing by any person, the relationship is doomed to fail.So, if someone tells you that they don't want to be with you anymore, why would you want to be with them? You may have all of the above mentioned feelings but if the other person doesn't have them, it's not a relationship. You can't force a person to feel these things, it's either there or it's not.
I've been through four break-ups with women. One woman took my son away from me, so I couldn't see him. The other set my car on fire and tried to have me arrested. The third took all of my money and humiliated me. But I remember the first girl, who I loved, that dumped me. I wasn't a good guy. I was missing a few of the above components. She sat me down, and explained to me in a calm voice, all the things that I had been doing to her in the past two years. Then she said that she wanted to break up with me. She even offered to give me a last piece of pussy and I accepted.
Afterwards, she said it was over, no screaming, yelling or cursing. She just had had enough. She also had the right to do all of those things, but she had class. We remained friends without benefits.
I think back and say to myself "Now that's how break-ups should be, no hostility, just the sad parting of ways."
After the last three bitches I broke up with, I had to get that girl I loved, who dumped me with such class back, to marry her ass because she was a keeper.
It's been over twenty years that we have been married. Now, this same woman, who was so rational and understanding when it came to breaking up, threatens my life every week that she'll kill me if I even think about leaving. Breaking up ain't easy!
Read more: Ghetto Bastard: A Memoir (Volume 1)
and Ghetto Bastard 2 (Volume 2)
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by Russell Vann
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