How I Could Be With My Son Without Him Being Used Against Me

November 16, 2017

How I Could Be With My Son Without Him Being Used Against Me

I tried to figure all the angles around how I could be with my son without him being used against me.

What man, who has broken up with a woman, involving a child, hasn't known the feeling of the child being used as a weapon against him, in some shape, form or fashion? Not all woman do this, just the fucked up ones. Most woman would love for their children's father to have a loving, close bond that lasts a lifetime with their child. But then there are others, the fucked up ones, who seek to inflict every emotional, mental and verbal attack possible, in order to seek revenge for the destruction of the relationship. As a result, the children that are used as pawns in these dysfunctional relationships, grow up and repeat the cycle.

I tried to figure out every angle possible to see my son. To love him and teach him how to become a man. But that ghetto rat mother of his took him 3,000 miles away and got on welfare with her four kids. That meant she had funding and housing. Also, every legal resource was at her disposal to retrieve child support knowing full well that she would get every dime whether or not I saw my child. Thus, the big picture was to create distance between me and my child and to drain me financially, while she sat back in her low rent apartment.

I say to men going through this type of scenario, don't give up on your relationship with your child. To the Bitches out there that do that fucked up shit, remember, you reap what you sow, because that child will always go looking for their daddy when they get older.

Can I get a shout out from people that have had their children used as weapons?

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