My Wife . . . .
My wife was the woman that was going to make a true man out of me. She was going to make me step up to the plate and reach my full potential.
The Bible says "A wife of noble character is worth more than rubies. Her husband is confident in her and lacks nothing of value. She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life." but "A quarrelsome wife is like the dripping of a leaky roof in a rainstorm; restraining her is like restraining the wind or grasping oil with the hand."
How true it is! If more men and women understood their roles, there would be no such thing as divorce, fatherless children, domestic abuse and all the other bullshit that comes with the lack of people not knowing.
This is just my opinion, so I don't want a bunch of people getting mad and talking shit. I don't give a fuck anyway because I'm just being brutally honest.
Let's start with men first. If you're a real man, you provide for your family. Even if that means that you have to shovel horse shit for a living. Once you bring a child into this world, you're job is to protect that child and it's mother, with your life. But, there are a lot of boys around here calling themselves men. They sit on their asses complaining that they can't find a job, but Burger King is hiring. A real man takes care of his family without jeopardizing his family i.e. selling drugs.
The fact of the matter is, if there were real men out here, women wouldn't be looking for daddies.
Now, lets look at women: Young women that are raised without fathers learn to disrespect men. They usually end up with a step father who resents them, a momma's boyfriend that tries to abuse them or a resentful mother that hates men because of her bad experiences with them. The young woman watches her mother and imitates her behavior towards men.
When a man meets the right woman, the one that respects him, loves him, encourages him and challenges him, there's nothing he can't do. It's not he anymore, it's WE!
How true it is! If more men and women understood their roles, there would be no such thing as divorce, fatherless children, domestic abuse and all the other bullshit that comes with the lack of people not knowing.
This is just my opinion, so I don't want a bunch of people getting mad and talking shit. I don't give a fuck anyway because I'm just being brutally honest.
Let's start with men first. If you're a real man, you provide for your family. Even if that means that you have to shovel horse shit for a living. Once you bring a child into this world, you're job is to protect that child and it's mother, with your life. But, there are a lot of boys around here calling themselves men. They sit on their asses complaining that they can't find a job, but Burger King is hiring. A real man takes care of his family without jeopardizing his family i.e. selling drugs.
The fact of the matter is, if there were real men out here, women wouldn't be looking for daddies.
Now, lets look at women: Young women that are raised without fathers learn to disrespect men. They usually end up with a step father who resents them, a momma's boyfriend that tries to abuse them or a resentful mother that hates men because of her bad experiences with them. The young woman watches her mother and imitates her behavior towards men.
When a man meets the right woman, the one that respects him, loves him, encourages him and challenges him, there's nothing he can't do. It's not he anymore, it's WE!
Read more: Ghetto Bastard: A Memoir (Volume 1) and Ghetto Bastard 2 (Volume 2)
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